" So," he said, after he had taken a bite "you're not going to tell me?"
"Not going to tell you what?"
"Whether or not you're gay."
"No," I said. "Why should I? Did you tell your parents?"
"I wasn't gay," said my father. "I was straight."
"So, what, if you're gay you have a moral obligation to inform your parents and if you're straight you don't? "

― Peter Cameron , Someday This Pain Will Be Useful to You