" A man went to Istanbul, his first visit there. On his way to a business meeting, this man lost his way. He began raging at himself for getting lost, until a realization allowed him to transcend his ire. "How can I be lost? I've never been here before?" pp 104-105 "

― Melody Beattie , The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency (Hazelden Meditation Series)