" One of the biggest oxymorons is the term “self-made” man or woman. No man or woman ever “made” him- or herself. The psalmist understood this when he wrote, “It is [God] who has made us, and not we ourselves” (Psalm 100:3, NKJV). I also love what he goes on to say at the end of the verse: “We are His people, and the sheep of His pasture. "

― Henry Cloud , God Will Make a Way: What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do