" If we accept the premise that pruning is necessary but still notice that we have an emotional misalignment with that premise, we will struggle to realize our vision of the future and our potential. But if you can become aware of your resistances and internal conflicts now, then you can begin to face them and work them through. "

― Henry Cloud , Necessary Endings: The Employees, Businesses, and Relationships That All of Us Have to Give Up in Order to Move Forward