" There are other types of neglect and deprivation. To deny what unfolds inside someone, to forbid the magic that comes unbidden, to impose ignorance in a way that invites danger, to say to a child, ‘You must not be what you are.’ That is wrong.” His voice was gentle but the condemnation was without compassion. "

― Robin Hobb , The Complete Tawny Man Trilogy: Fool's Errand, The Golden Fool, Fool's Fate