" Our tendency in the midst of suffering is to turn on God. To get angry and bitter and shake our fist at the sky and say, " God, you don't know what it's like! You don't understand! You have no idea what I'm going through. You don't have a clue how much this hurts." The cross is God's way of taking away all of our accusations, excuses, and arguments.The cross is God taking on flesh and blood and saying, " Me too. "