" It is much better for us and our children when we aim to be ourselves rather than try to “do the right thing”. Parents who are authentic are better parents than those who try to be theoretical parents. Parents who make mistakes and take responsibility for their mistakes are better parents than those who try to be perfect. Parents who strive for perfection will always make their children feel like failures and children who feel like failures often end up failing. "

― Jesper Juul , Grenzen, Nähe, Respekt: Auf dem Weg zur kompetenten Eltern-Kind-Beziehung