" I used to think that if you changed from … valuing one thing to valuing another, it was because you’d learnt something new, understood something better. And it’s not like that at all. I just value what I’m stuck with. That’s it, that’s the whole story. People make a virtue out of necessity. They sanctify what they can’t escape. "

― Greg Egan , Distress (Subjective Cosmology #3)