" So, you end up having to present what seems obvious, in a way that seems like just a positive option. Inclusivity has to be seen as a benefit to the community. The lack of diversity has to be seen as a detriment to that community. The person bringing up inclusivity kinda has to address a problem without calling attention to the fact that it even is a problem…and has to address the people who have the ability to solve that problem…without calling attention to the fact that those people created the problem in the first place. "

― Kevin A. Patterson , Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities