" I THINK THAT people confuse a woman with empathy with someone who has the emotional means to raise a child. I’m not mother material but I’m a nice person, sure. And I’m a nice person because I’m usually in a good mood and I’m usually in a good mood because I’m not responsible for raising a child I don’t want. "

― Jen Kirkman , I Can Barely Take Care of Myself: Tales From a Happy Life Without Kids