" We need to realize that any individual, and generally it is someone that we call a boyfriend or girlfriend, lover, mate, husband, wife, friend, consort, or anyone that is getting us to learn more about ourselves, to see aspects of ourselves that we don’t typically like to see or want to see, is, in fact, our actual soul mate. "

― Shalom Melchizedek , Learning To Love: And The Power of Sacred Sexual Spiritual Partnerships