" It’s funny—we worry about the big things, about the big decisions we make in our lives, and how they’ll affect us. Take this job or that job? Go to school? Marry; don’t marry. Move? But it’s the little decisions we make that irrevocably destroy us. Dine in or take out? Turn left here or wait a block? Each one of those little decisions drives us toward our end, and we don’t even know it. "

― Toni McGee Causey , The Saints of the Lost and Found