QUOTE : I think it’s true that the older you get, and I am very old, the more you see that being in love and breaking up have a lot in common.<br /><br />Love is hard. Breaking up is hard. Love is dramatic. Breaking up is dramatic.<br /><br />Which makes me think that a lot of the questions you have about breaking up might be better thought of as questions about the nature of the love you have with this girl.