QUOTE : I remember in Soul Circle, you used to say losing a friend ‘is one of the great, under-reported tragedies of adult life.’ So true.” “It is,” I said. “In every small church group I’ve ever led, someone talks about a friendship that ended and how blindsided and grief-stricken they were, and then everyone chimes in with their stories. It’s as if they were all waiting for the chance to talk it out. But you must get that in your work.” “A little,” Adrian said.