" Spiritually speaking, have you ever noticed that the one question God doesn’t answer is “Why?” Why often provides a diversion from our emotions, because we don’t want to feel, we want to know. This is dangerous as it disconnects us from ourselves, others, and even God. "

― Andrea Anderson Polk , The Cuckoo Syndrome: The Secret to Breaking Free from Unhealthy Relationships, Toxic Thinking, and Self-Sabotaging Behavior