" I personally define grief as the loss of anything meaningful (not only a physical death), and the human process and journey that follow it. I only have one guide post when it comes to the journey — honour it — all of it.
You may have noticed I spell honour the Canadian way. That’s intentional.
Although I’ve lived in the United States for most of my adult life, when it comes to this word, I truly believe that it’s more of an “our’’ thing than an “or” thing. "

― , First Year of Grief Club : A Gift From A Friend Who Gets It