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Chris Crutcher QUOTES

1 " But the truth doesn't need to be known, or believed, to be true. "

― Chris Crutcher , Deadline

2 " Nothing exists without its opposite. "

― Chris Crutcher , Whale Talk

3 " So you didn’t tell me it was a messed-up idea to keep this all a secret because. . .”
Because experience is the only teacher,” Hey-Soos says. “Even if I could have told you, it would have been a lecture. Why do you think kids don’t listen to their parents, or people don’t leave churches and do what the preacher tells them? There’s only one thing that’s universal.”
What’s that?”
The truth. "

― Chris Crutcher , Deadline

4 " There is no Jesus without Judas, no Martin Luther King, Jr., without the Klan; no Ali without Joe Frazier; no freedom without tyranny. No wisdom exists that does not include perspective. Relativity is the greatest gift. "

― Chris Crutcher , King of the Mild Frontier: An Ill-Advised Autobiography

5 " He tries to force the anger down, but it's like an anvil on his chest. He closes his eyes, like Sammy taught him, and forces the anvil up; he softens. "

― Chris Crutcher , The Crazy Horse Electric Game

6 " ...we can say we love each other if my life is better because you're in it and your life is better because I'm in it. "

― Chris Crutcher , Deadline

7 " Talking with Elaine like that, with no judgment from her or anything, seemed to bring my feelings more to the surface so I could look at them. I love times like that; you don't get many of them.
(Walker, in STOTAN!) "

― Chris Crutcher

8 " From a distance,' he says, 'my car looks just like every other car on the freeway, and Sarah Byrnes looks just like the rest of us. And if she's going to get help, she'll get it from herself or she'll get it from us. Let me tell you why I brought this up. Because the other day when I saw how hard it was for Mobe to go to the hospital to see her, I was embarrassed that I didn't know her better, that I ever laughed at one joke about her. I was embarrassed that I let some kid go to school with me for twelve years and turned my back on pain that must be unbearable. I was embarrassed that I haven't found a way to include her somehow the way Mobe has.'

Jesus. I feel tears welling up, and I see them running down Ellerby's cheeks. Lemry better get a handle on this class before it turns into some kind of therapy group.

So,' Lemry says quietly, 'your subject will be the juxtaposition of man and God in the universe?'

Ellerby shakes his head. 'My subject will be shame. "

― Chris Crutcher , Staying Fat for Sarah Byrnes

9 " Something about the joy and pain of that moment, something about the excruciating contrast, made me feel that no matter what happens now, my life has been worth it. What a ride. "

― Chris Crutcher , Stotan!

10 " ...You don't always get what you expect. I wish someone, sometime when I was growing up, would have told me what expectations would get me. ...
Our parents, schools, everyone tells us things will be a certain way when we're adults and if they're not that way, we should make them be; or at least pretend. But after a certain point that just doesn't work. "

― Chris Crutcher

11 " Viruses have no morality, no sense of good and evil, the deserving or the undeserving.... AIDS is not the swift sword with which the Lord punishes the evil practitioners of male homosexuality and intravenous drug use. It is simply an opportunistic virus that does what it has to do to stay alive. "

― Chris Crutcher , King of the Mild Frontier: An Ill-Advised Autobiography

12 " Since then I have searched for my heroes among small-t truths. I always find them among people learning the art of acceptance: not acceptance of defeat or acceptance of some inability to influence their own futures, but rather acceptance of life on the planet, acceptance of the grays rather than the black-and-whites, acceptance of the astonishing range of human emotion and human behavior. "

― Chris Crutcher , King of the Mild Frontier: An Ill-Advised Autobiography

13 " Comedy is tragedy standing on its head with its pants down. "

― Chris Crutcher , Chinese Handcuffs

14 " 144461I know very little having to do with human beings that doesn't also have to do with connection. We want to be noticed, we want to be good enough, we want friends, and we want to be loved. We want our place to stand. "

― Chris Crutcher

15 " ...racist thought and action says far more about the person they come from than the person they are directed at. "

― Chris Crutcher , Whale Talk

16 " You have to see everyone in relationship to you. Just because you understand the shit in someone else's life doesn't mean you don't stand up for your own "

― Chris Crutcher , Whale Talk

17 " A sport has its own built-in integrity, doesn't need an artificial one. Athletics carries its own set of truths, and those truths are diminished and manipulated by people with agendas. "

― Chris Crutcher , King of the Mild Frontier: An Ill-Advised Autobiography

18 " I figure if Doc is right about the time I have left,I should wrap up my adolescence in the next few days, get into my early productive stages about the third week of school, go through my midlife crisis during Martin Luther King Jr's birthday, redouble my efforts at productivity and think about my legacy, say, Easter, and start cashing in my 401(k)s a couple weeks before Memorial Day. "

― Chris Crutcher , Deadline

19 " And I think if you're going to be with somebody, you owe it to them to show yourself. "

― Chris Crutcher , Staying Fat for Sarah Byrnes

20 " As a child abuse and neglect therapist I do battle daily with Christians enamored of the Old Testament phrase "Spare the rod and spoil the child." No matter how far I stretch my imagination, it does not stretch far enough to include the image of a cool dude like Jesus taking a rod to a kid. "

― Chris Crutcher , King of the Mild Frontier: An Ill-Advised Autobiography