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Bama QUOTES

Bama QUOTES

1 " Bama captures a moment that contains a paradox: she seeks an identity, but seeks a change which means an end to that identity. "

― Bama , Karukku

2 " I comfort myself with the thought that rather than live a life with a fraudulent smile, it is better to lead a life weeping real tears. "

― Bama , Karukku

3 " If a woman so much as stands alone and by herself somewhere, all sorts of men gather around her showing their teeth. "

― Bama , Karukku

4 " We have to labour in the fields as hard as men do, and then on top of that, struggle to bear and raise our children. As for the men, their work ends when they've finished in the fields. If you are born into this world, it is best you were born a man. Born as women, what good do we get? We only toil in the fields and in the home until our very vaginas shrivel. "

― Bama , Sangati: Events

5 " Even though they are male, because they are Dalits, they have to be like dogs with their tails rolled up when they are in the fields, and dealing with their landlords, There is no way they can show their strength in those circumstances. So they show it at home on their wives and children. But then, is it the fate of our women to be tormented both outside their houses and within? "

― Bama , Sangati: Events

6 " In our streets, there is no snatching and grabbing in the name of dowry and such-like. People make do with what they have...

But among the more educated, nowadays, all this is changing. These people, for some reason, want to copy the upper castes. It's becoming a real problem having to make so many jewels for the bride and giving a lump sum worth so much, on top of that.

Such people can change themselves into a different caste only in these superficial matters, though. Because, whatever we do, whatever rituals we copy from other castes they, for their part, always rate us as beneath them. So what is the point of trying to copy them? Why should we lose all the better customs that are ours, and end up as neither one thing nor the other? It's like forgetting the butter in one's hand and going in search of ghee. "

― Bama , Sangati: Events