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21 " When the trust is gone, everything else will soon follow "
― Amari Soul , Reflections of a Man
22 " You can’t be mad at her for leaving when you are the one who pushed her away. "
23 " Cheating is never an accident; it is a conscious decision. "
24 " One of the most frustrating positions you, as a good woman, could ever find yourself in, is in a relationship with a man who makes you feel like you’re still single. Being in a relationship with a man that has no time for you, shows you no affection, and makes you feel like, half the time, you’re still single… what’s the point? "
25 " When your love is real, it's hard to just stop loving someone... even after they've proven to you over and over again that they don't deserve your love. "
26 " Some people get a second chance while others don't because some people are willing to change while others won't. "
27 " Just because he has a right to his privacy in the relationship, doesn’t mean he has a right to keepsecrets from you. "
― Amari Soul
28 " When in a relationship, never let your ego write a check that only a single man can cash. "
29 " If he decides to keep one little secret from you, it will have the power to ruin your whole relationship.Not necessarily because of the secret in and of itself, but because of the thousand lies that he’ll have to tell you to keep it.#ReflectionsOfAMan "
30 " What hurts you the most is not the fact that it's over, but rather that you chose to waste your time with him in the first place. "
31 " The reality is that sometimes, it takes more strength to let go than it does to keep holding on. "
32 " Have you ever felt like your heart had been ripped right out of your chest... like when they walked out the door, they took with them your very last breath? "
33 " In the lake there lies a reflection, if you love her, she willalways love you back. "
34 " Only a new love can help repair the damage left by an old one. Whether it be the love from another, a spiritual love, the love of self or all of the above, only love has that power. "
35 " In a relationship, you can never give enough to a man who is willing to take everything from you. "
36 " You could be doing everything right: working, cooking, cleaning, great sex…everything. But if it’s for the wrong man, that still won’t be enough to keep him. "
37 " As a man, I used to sometimes do thingsthat seemed counter productive to myrelationship’s growth. I would pull away; I createdproblems where there were none and I would argueover small things that really meant nothing to me.I guess you could say that you and I were somewhat thesame. In the end, the closer we got,the more afraid we became.I never understood until I began to actually listen toyou. That’s when I realized…I was just as afraid of being hurt as you were. "
38 " List the main qualities of the wrong man that are absolute deal breakers to you. "
39 " Now list how, in the past, you’ve missed these qualities or reasons why you’ve tolerated them. "
40 " Finally, write down how, in the future, you will better guard yourself against these qualities. "