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Alain de Botton QUOTES

1 " One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy. "

― Alain de Botton

2 " There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life. "

― Alain de Botton

3 " There's a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough. "

― Alain de Botton

4 " The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be. "

― Alain de Botton

5 " The price we have paid for expecting to be so much more than our ancestors is a perpetual anxiety that we are far from being all we might be. "

― Alain de Botton

6 " The most boring and unproductive question one can ask of any religion is whether or not it is true. "

― Alain de Botton , Religion for Atheists: A Non-Believer's Guide to the Uses of Religion

7 " Far from rejecting outright any hierarchy of success or failure, philosophy instead reconfigures the judging process, lending legitimacy to theidea that themainstream value system may unfairly consign some people to disgrace and others to respectability. "

― Alain de Botton , Status Anxiety

8 " We don't need to be constantly reasonable in order to have good relationships; all we need to have mastered is the occasional capacity to acknowledge with good grace that we may, in one or two areas, be somewhat insane. "

― Alain de Botton , The Course of Love

9 " The media insists on taking what someone didn't mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did. "

― Alain de Botton

10 " I never wavered in my certainty that God did not exist. I was simply liberated by the thought that there might be a way to engage with religion without having to subscribe to its supernatural content - a way, to put it in more abstract terms, to think about Fathers without upsetting my respectful memory of my own father. I recognized that my continuing resistance to theories of an afterlife or of heavenly residents was no justification for giving up on the music, buildings, prayers, rituals, feasts, shrines, pilgrimages, communal meals and illustrated manuscripts of the faiths. "

― Alain de Botton , Religion for Atheists: A Non-Believer's Guide to the Uses of Religion

Alain de Botton QUOTES

11 " However powerful our technology and complex our corporations, the most remarkable feature of the modern working world may in the end be internal, consisting in an aspect of our mentalities: in the widely held belief that our work should make us happy. All societies have had work at their centre; ours is the first to suggest that it could be something more than a punishment or a penance. Ours is the first to imply that we should seek to work even in the absence of a financial imperative. "

― Alain de Botton , The Pleasures and Sorrows of Work

12 " The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts. "

― Alain de Botton

13 " Don't despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don't - surrender to events with hope. "

― Alain de Botton

14 " It is hope--with regard to our careers, our love lives, our children, our politicians, and our planet--that is primarily to blame for angering and embittering us. The incompatibility between the grandeur of our aspirations and the mean reality of our condition generates the violent disappointments which rack our days and etch themselves in lines of acrimony across our faces. "

― Alain de Botton , Religion for Atheists: A Non-Believer's Guide to the Uses of Religion

15 " What makes the prospect of death distinctive in the modern age is the background of permanent technological and sociological revolution against which it is set, and which serves to strip us of any possible faith in the permanence of our labours. Our ancestors could believe that their achievements had a chance of bearing up against the flow of events. We know time to be a hurricane. Our buildings, our sense of style, our ideas, all of these will soon enough be anachronisms, and the machines in which we now take inordinate pride will seem no less bathetic than Yorick's skull. "

― Alain de Botton , The Pleasures and Sorrows of Work

16 " One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me? "

― Alain de Botton

17 " In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion. "

― Alain de Botton , Religion for Atheists: A Non-Believer's Guide to the Uses of Religion

18 " For the rest of history, for most of us, our bright promise will always fall short of being actualised; it will never earn us bountiful sums of money or beget exemplary objects or organisations....

Most of us stand poised at the edge of brilliance, haunted by the knowledge of our proximity, yet still demonstrably on the wrong side of the line, our dealings with reality undermined by a range of minor yet critical psychological flaws (a little too much optimism, an unprocessed rebelliousness, a fatal impatience or sentimentality). We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or a bicycle. "

― Alain de Botton , The Pleasures and Sorrows of Work

19 " If one felt successful, there'd be so little incentive to be successful. "

― Alain de Botton

20 " Philosophy, art, politics, religion and bohemia have never sought to do away entirely with the status hierarchy; they have attemptee, rather, to institute new kinds of hierarchies based on sets of values unrecognised by, and critical of, those of the majority.. They have provided us with persuasive and consoling reminders that there is more than one way of succeeding in life. "

― Alain de Botton , Status Anxiety