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" If we want masculinity to be different, we must confront and tackle the baseline instead of longing for exceptions. Loving your mother, holding a door open for a woman, being a good listener, or even being a feminist doesn’t make a man an exception. Experiencing oppression—including racism, homophobia, and transphobia—doesn’t make a man an exception. If we are invested in perpetuating and glorifying the myth of the “good man,” we are also complicit in overlooking, if not permitting, the reprehensible behaviour of the “typical man”. "
― Vivek Shraya , I'm Afraid of Men
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" He doesn’t respond. Instead, he walks solemnly toward where Shiv and I are seated, leaning on each other, and begins to circle us in silence. Ganesh, what are you doing, son? After three rounds, he finally responds, panting. Dearest Uma and Pita … you are my earth. You are my world. I put my hand on my chest and sigh. Shiv stands to embrace Ganesh. Oh, beloved son. You have demonstrated how a loving heart and a wise mind can surpass any physical prowess. From this day forward, no prayer or journey may commence without acquiring your blessing first. I name you Lord of the Lords. "
― Vivek Shraya , She of the Mountains