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Michael Puett QUOTES

1 " Living in a capricious world means accepting that we do not live within a stable moral cosmos that will always reward people for what they do. We should not deny that real tragedies happen. But at the same time, we should always expect to be surprised and learn to work with whatever befalls us. If we continue this work, even when tragedies come our way, we can begin to accept the world as unpredictable and impossible to understand perfectly. And this is where the promise of a capricious world lies; if our world is indeed constantly fragmented and unpredicatable, then it is something we can constantly work on bettering. We can go into each situation resolved to be the best human being we can be, not because of what we'll get our of it, but simply to affect others around us for the better, regardless of the outcome. We can cultivate our better sides and face this unpredicatble world, transforming as we go. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

2 " Our lives begin in the everyday and stay in the everyday. Only in the everyday can we begin to create truly great worlds. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

3 " You do not yet understand life - how could you understand death?"
- Confucius "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

4 " You can dam and direct the water, and you can force it to remain on the top of a mountain without flowing down. But is this what water's nature really is? It is what you have done to it that makes it so. Humans can also be made to be not good in the same way. "
- Mencius "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

5 " Our habits limit what we can see, access, sense, and know. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

6 " We tend to believe that to change the world, we have to think big. Confucius wouldn't dispute this, but he would likely also say. Don't ignore the small. Don't forget the "pleases" and "thank yous." Change doesn't happen until people alter their behavior, and they don't alter their behavior unless they start with the small. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

7 " When you hold too tightly to a plan, you risk missing out on these things. And when you wake up one day in that future, you will feel boxed in by a life that, at best, reflects only a piece of who you thought you were at one moment in time. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

8 " True imagination and creativity don’t come from thinking outside the box or letting ourselves go wild, just as true spontaneity does not come from dancing on a table on the weekend while you remain in your tedious job. They don’t come out of great disruptive moments that break forth from an otherwise ordinary, drab life. They are part and parcel of how we live our every day; all moments can be creative and spontaneous when we experience the entire world as an open and expansive place. We get there by constantly cultivating our ability to imagine transcending our own experience. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

9 " Confucius's disciples frequently asked him to define goodness. He would give each of them a different answer each time, depending on the situation. That's because Confucian goodness is not something you can define in the abstract. It's the ability to respond well to others; the development of a sensibility that enables you to behave in ways that are good for those around you and to draw out their own better sides. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

10 " Ming is not just about the tragedies that befall us. It’s about the good things, too; the unexpected opportunities, unforeseen chances to do something we love, the chance encounter with someone who will change the trajectory of our whole life. When you hold too tightly to a plan, you risk missing out on these things. And when you wake up one day in that future, you will feel boxed in by a life that, at best, reflects only a piece of who you thought you were at one moment in time. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

11 " The psychologist and philosopher William James (1842–1910) once wrote, “A man has as many social selves as there are individuals who recognize him”—a surprisingly Confucian sentiment. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

12 " There is no ethical or moral framework that transcends context and the complexity of human life. All we have is the messy world within which to work and better ourselves. These ordinary as-if rituals are the means by which we imagine new realities over time construct new worlds. Our lives begin in the everyday and stay in the everyday. Only in the everyday can we begin to create truly great worlds. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

13 " Will we act according to where we are stuck in the moment, or will we act in a way that opens up a constellation of possibilities? "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

14 " Rather than going into all of this thinking "I can be anything I want to be" the approach....is "I don't know yet what I can become". "

― Michael Puett

15 " But we tend to either neglect our sprouts, forgetting to water or nourish them, or else we are too forceful: we grab them and try to tug at them to make them grow. Not only do we disrupt our natural goodness, but also we become miserable, easily dominated by our worst instincts: jealousy, anger, and resentment. When we do this, we harm our own humanity and harm those around us. By unleashing the worst in ourselves, we bring out the worst in others and cause them to kill their sprouts too. Most of us fail to achieve our potential, but this is not how it has to be. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

16 " You can embrace life by opening up yourself to see the task of ironing a shirt not as a tiresome chore but as an exercise in cultivating trained spontaneity; a head cold not as inconvenient but as a chance to cozy up in bed reading novels; a canceled wedding engagement not as heartbreak but as an opportunity for a new future. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

17 " By making concrete, defined plans, you are actually being abstract, because you are making these plans for a self that is abstract: a future self that you imagine based on who you think you are now, even though you, the world, and your circumstances will change. You cut yourself off from the real, messy complexities that are the basis from which you can develop as a human being. You eliminate your ability to grow as a person because you are limiting that growth to what is in the best interests of the person you happen to be right now, and not the person you will become. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

18 " Living in a capricious world means accepting that we do not live within a stable moral cosmos that will always reward people for what they do. We should not deny that real tragedies do happen. But at the same time, we should always expect to be surprised and learn to work with whatever befalls us. If we can continue this work, even when tragedies come our way, we can begin to accept the world as unpredictable and impossible to determine perfectly. And this is where the promise of a capricious world lies: if our world is indeed constantly fragmented and unpredictable, then it is something we can constantly work on bettering. We can go into each situation resolved to be the best human being we can be, not because of what we’ll get out of it, but simply to affect others around us for the better, regardless of the outcome. We can cultivate our better sides and face this unpredictable world, transforming it as we go. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

19 " True influence isn't to be found in over strength or will. It comes from creating a world that feels so natural that no one questions it. This is how a Laozian safe wields enormous influence. "

― Michael Puett , The Path: What Chinese Philosophers Can Teach Us About the Good Life

20 " Do not listen with your ears but listen with your heart; do not listen with your heart but listen with qi. . . . You have heard of using knowing to know; you have not heard of using not knowing to know. . . . Allow your ears and your eyes to penetrate on the inside, and place the understanding of the mind on the outside. "

― Michael Puett , Confucius, Mencius, Laozi, Zhuangzi, Xunzi: Selected Passages from the Chinese Philosophers in The Path