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21 " if someone says they’re hurt by your actions, you must believe they’re hurt; you can’t decide for them whether or not they felt hurt in the first place. "
― Vex King , Good Vibes, Good Life: How Self-Love Is the Key to Unlocking Your Greatness
22 " Improving yourself and your life is also self-love, because it means you recognize that you deserve more than settling for mediocrity. "
23 " What you consume consumes you; what consumes you controls your life. "
24 " empowering novels like The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho are great, "
25 " In psychology, the concept of ‘social proof’ suggests that people like to follow the crowd. If everyone else is doing it, you assume it’s the right thing to do. Other people influence your actions more than you realize. For example, if you had to pick between two new bars and you could see that one was packed while the other isn’t, you’d assume that the empty one sucked and the popular one was much better! But just because everyone else is doing it does not mean it’s right. Slavery used to be legal, but now nearly everyone would agree that it’s inhumane, degrading and immoral. "
26 " you can’t feel joy without being thankful; being thankful is a vital component of happiness. "
27 " Surround yourself with people who are vibin’higher than you. Be around people who are feelingbetter than you are. Energy is contagious. "
28 " We assume that it’s better to wipe out negative thoughts, numb our feelings and move on to more positive ideas. This is often ineffective because you’re just trying to trick yourself into thinking things are okay, "
29 " These stories were demonstrating that my failure wasn’t final. Anyone who has accomplished anything great has faced big challenges or failures. But they’re only final if you quit. "
30 " This is a beautiful life. I’m glad to be a wave for these few moments. I won’t break or die when I hit the shore because I’ll simply go back to the ocean. I came from the ocean and I’ll return to it. It is what I am, and I am what it is. This is how I’m meant to be. "
― Vex King , Healing Is the New High: A Guide to Overcoming Emotional Turmoil and Finding Freedom
31 " Remember, if you show your excitement to the Universe, it’ll give you more things to feel excited about. "
32 " Unhealthy relationships drain all the goodness out of us. We give everything to someone who just won’t match our efforts and willingness to try. We empty our love bank to make them feel wealthier, while we become broke. We give ourselves up to someone who doesn’t respect us enough to treat us well in return. "
33 " Self-love is the balance between accepting yourself as you are while knowing that you deserve better and working towards it. "
34 " Your goal isn’t to get rid of negative thoughts;it’s to change your response to them. "
35 " Those who attempt to belittle us reveal more about their own character and perception of the world than ours. Those who want to hurt the world outside of them must contain hurt in their inner world. You can only give what you have – literally and energetically. "
36 " She’d worked on the physical first, and the emotional healing followed. "
37 " Abuse and criticism disguised as ‘feedback’ doesn’t deserve your attention. "
38 " When it comes to healing, awareness is key. You’ve got to be willing to notice what’s going on with you, "
39 " Just because they’re your family, it doesn’t mean they have the best intentions for you. Many of us are taught that there’s nothing more important than family. But biological relationships don’t always equal supportive, close relationships. Friends can be more like family than family itself. We shouldn’t conceal the fact that sometimes it’s our own family members who are the most toxic people in our lives. "
40 " What you verbalize will eventually materialize.You have the power to talk aspects of your reality into existence. "