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1 " Today is the first day of the rest of your life. "
― Nicole Sodoma , Please Don't Say You're Sorry: An Empowering Perspective on Marriage, Separation, and Divorce from a Marriage-Loving Divorce Attorney
2 " Working on “you” and “us” (and not on “them”) is everything. "
3 " A lack of financial insight can drive distrust and instill a fear of separation. "
4 " Conditional love will always have unintentional consequences. "
5 " challenging what’s accepted is how change happens "
6 " don’t accept what absolutely won’t work for you, but be ready to accept the consequences if you insist on burying your head in the sand. "
7 " hope triumphs over our experience. "
8 " You are the only one in the way of your financial happiness and peace of mind. "
9 " Your happiness is not someone else’s happiness. "
10 " The hard truth of the dissolution of a marriage is that, while it takes two to say “I do,” it takes only one to say “I don’t. "
11 " The People We Marry Are Not the People We Divorce "
12 " Trust me, divorce is not a hall pass. While it can feel like freedom to some, it can feel like death to others. Either way, it inevitably comes rushing upstream carrying a containership of grief and guilt. It’s like a bad dream, even when you didn’t realize you were asleep. "
13 " If you choose to divorce, the experience can and will change you, but it doesn’t have to define you. "
14 " Choice is the only thing you can control. "
15 " After the initial separation, you may experience the roller coaster of grief and freedom. "
16 " If you are going to say you are sorry, at least finish the sentence! "
