Zan Perrion QUOTES

4 " I could tell you the truth about me... but to seduce you, I will tell you the truth about you... "

― Zan Perrion , The Alabaster Girl

6 " A man who can make fun of himself is a man at peace with himself, completely and unapologetically being himself, never shy about being put on the spot, with nothing to prove and no fear of ridicule. "

― Zan Perrion , The Alabaster Girl

8 " We have forgotten how to have fun. We unlearn fun. Every interaction with women should be infused with fun. This includes the way we meet, the way we date, the way we are together in bed, and the way we are together in relationship. If it isn't fun, what's the point? If it isn't fun, it needs to be left behind. Because... why not? We are treasure hunters, adventurers, raconteurs, are we not? "

― Zan Perrion , The Alabaster Girl

10 " The greatest women are the ones who can see the potential in a man, where it is possible for him to go. If there is to be a meaningful men’s movement on this earth, it will be led by men, but inspired by women. We can’t do it alone. "

― Zan Perrion , The Alabaster Girl

12 " It’s the same feeling we get when we realize the summer is gone and now it is winter again and we didn’t go to the beach and the gym and camping and all the other things we promised ourselves we would do, any more often than we did the summer before. And now we have no choice—our birthday is here again whether we like it or not—so we gamely celebrate it, making the most of it, hiding our dread of mortality behind a cake and a card. Here is something amazing: When you fill every day with the best memories you can possibly make, when you visualize the life you want to live and then move toward it no matter what the cost, that twinge of regret is forever gone. You are aligned. You are exactly where you need to be. You can’t see the future, but that’s okay. You just take another step forward into the mystery, the unknown, knowing that your foot will always hit something. It is a wonderful thing to be free of the feeling of the marching of time; to have the ability to welcome it; to know that all your adventures, small and great, are creating you, a glorious you; to discover that when you love and celebrate your life, others will love and celebrate your life, too. "

― Zan Perrion , The Alabaster Girl

14 " Can you feel that in the air? That urgency? For there is an urgency
There is no time to waste!
Let the trumpet sound throughout the land!
A clarion call for a new way of being.
Head toward the light, and only the light. Destroy your options. Cross your personal Rubicon.
Burn your ships.
Ride your horse as it can go, then dismount and carry on.
Forward!
Never settle!
Dregs settle.
Lead! Lead!
And never follow again! "

― Zan Perrion , The Alabaster Girl

16 " The beauty song of women is a love song. This is my truth. I love women. I don’t give a damn what others think of me. Let analysts analyze. Let psychologists murmur and suggest. Let moralists tut-tut and wring their hands. Let man-haters roar. I move through life without apology, without defense, without regret. I am wondrously in love with women, in love with the very idea of women, and if your heart is sincere, you will understand exactly what that means. This is what I live. This is what I love. This is what I believe. This is my religion, my saving grace. This is the air I breathe. When "

― Zan Perrion , The Alabaster Girl

18 " If we could see ourselves through the eyes of others—the way we look when we walk into a room, for example—we would think, “Oh, wow… that’s not so bad! "

― Zan Perrion , The Alabaster Girl

20 " All we have to do is shake hands with our past, take the lessons, and leave the excuses. "

― Zan Perrion , The Alabaster Girl