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1 " In philosophy class I think we finally decided that 'good' is an infinitely recursive term - it can't be defined except in terms of itself. Good is good because it's better than bad, though why it's better to be good than bad depends on how you define good, and on and on. "
― Orson Scott Card , Ender in Exile (Ender's Saga, #5)
2 " It is easy to say that you can adopt the whole human race as your children, but it is not the same as living in a home with a child and shaping all you do to help him learn to be happy and whole and good. Don't live your life without ever holding a child in your arms, on your lap, in your home, and feeling a child's arms around you and hearing his voice in your ear and seeing his smile, given to you because you put it into your heart. "
3 " A man without a wife and babies is a menace to civilization... One bachelor is an irritation. Ten thousand bachelors are a war. "
4 " We are only human when we are part of a community. ... I tried to isolate you, but it could not be done. I surrounded you with hostility; you took most of your enemies and rivals and made friends of them. ... You were a part of them; they carried you inside them all their lives. "
5 " You are the least-alone person I have ever known. Your heart has always included within it everyone who let you love them, and many who did not. "
6 " There are rules to everything, even if nobody made them up, even if nobody calls it a game. And if you want things to work out well, it's best to know the rules and only break them if you're playing a different game and following those rules. "
7 " So from then on, he looked at all his choices and said, What would a good person do, and then did it. But he has now learned something very important about human nature. If you spend your whole life pretending to be good, then you are indistinguishable from a good person. Relentless hypocrisy eventually becomes the truth. "
8 " If desire did not dim the brain, nobody would ever get married, drunk, or fat. "
9 " One bachelor is an irritation. Ten thousand bachelors are a war. "
10 " It's easy to manipulate your children when they're absolutely sure you're stupid. "
11 " Nonsense," said Graff. "Ender always has plans within plans. "
12 " In the real world irrational things happened, impossible coincidences happened, because probability required that coincidences rarely, but not never, occur. "
13 " It's about me, or people wouldn't be so anxious to keep me from knowing about it. The absence of information is information. ~ Ender "
14 " There was some enthusiasm for a Caliban village, but it quickly dissipated when people contemplated a future village school and what the mascot might look like. "
15 " And what? What's the other choice? To passively let things happen and then say: "Tut-tut, what at botch that was"? Don't we all manipulate people? Even if we openly ask them to make a choice, don't we try to frame it so they'll chose as we think they should? "
16 " There is no harder job than parenting. There is no human relationship with such potential for great achievement and awful destructiveness, and despite all the experts who write about it, no one has the slightest idea whether any decision will be right or best or even not-horrible for any particular child. It is a job that simply cannot be done right. "
17 " I am a Gordian knot. Don't unravel, just slice. "
18 " Don't judge me until you understand me. You can't understand me if you've already judged me. "
19 " Nobody has control of anything. We're all beggars at the throne of fate. But sometimes he has mercy! "
20 " I had the foolish idea that we should test for desirable and useful traits so that we could assemble ideally balanced teams to the colonies. [...] It's like those foolish attempts to control immigration to America based on the traits that were deemed desirable, when in fact the only trait that defines Americans historically is "descended from somebody willing to give up everything to live there. "