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I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays QUOTES

1 " The children were overwhelmingly morbid. Not a single adult asked me where butterflies go when they die, but this question was more popular than pixie sticks with the under-four-foot set. I cursed parents for not preparing their children. When I was five, my mother and sister sat me up on the kitchen counter and explained the facts of life: the Easter Bunny didn't exist, Elijah was God's invisible friend, with any luck Nana would die soon, and if I ever saw a unicorn, I should kill it or catch it for cash. I turned out okay. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

2 " People are less quick to applaud you as you grow older. Life starts out with everyone clapping when you take a poo and goes downhill from there. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

3 " The real proof that I have tried to love and that people have tried to love me back was never going to fit in a kitchen drawer. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

4 " It's so clear to me now: the memorizing of a fake prayer, the symbolization of objects, the struggle to relate to the invisible - I needed a religion. I was lost. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

5 " Perhaps if I'd had God in my life growing up I would have been able to understand the total and complete unfairness of the universe rewarding mean girls "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

6 " There is a point in most abusive relationships when it occurs to the beaten party that they are guilty of putting their face in the way of someone else's fist. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

7 " So natural and universal is a child's curiosity about sex and so long are we conscious of it before we do it, that our original impressions of it leave an indelible mark. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

8 " Why do people always want to put their hands on vulnerability? I sped up. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

9 " I have never pictured my own wedding. I do want to get married. It's a nice idea. Though I think husbands are like tattoos - you should wait until you come across something you want on your body for the rest of your life. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

10 " It seemed that having girlfriends was a sign of innocence and a boundless capacity to care about other women. The hearts in that photograph and multiple strings attached to multiple other hearts. Everything was less about cliché and more about camaraderie. We weren't out for ourselves, we were out for each other. When had I forgotten that? When had I cut the pink wire? "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

11 " love is not boastful. But hate? Apparently hate has a big mouth. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

12 " I thought of the past and how one should have respect for it, like the elderly. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

13 " It should be noted that my mother has a long history of being disturbingly unperturbed by what normal people deem perturbing. Certain things simply don't strike her as worthy of a sit-down. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

14 " Teddy bears are best because they understand it's nice to be alone. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

15 " Even a person like this makes mistakes, can't always hold on to everything they'd like to,can't always force the world to spin in the direction of their choosing. You'll hug him longer than necessary and tell him to keep in touch. And you'll know, finally, that it had nothing to do with you. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

16 " I was stunned. I pulled the phone away and looked quizzically at the hole-punched speaker. Aside from the blood obligation to be my sister's maid of honor, it had never occured to me that I would get asked to be in anyone's wedding. I thought we had reached an understanding, the institution of marriage and I. Weddings are the like the triathlon of female friendship: the Shower, the Bachelorette Party, and the Main Event. It's the Iron Woman and most people never make it through. They fall off their bikes or choke on ocean water. I figured if I valued my life, I'd stay away from weddings and they'd stay away from me. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

17 " The only bit I have pictured in any detail is the music (maybe 'The Book of Love' by the Magnetic Fields. Or Johnny Cash's 'It Ain't Me, Babe'). It doesn't matter if the selection is slow or fast, but couples shouldn't scramble to select it. If you have ever gone dancing or on a road trip or had a romantic bout of serenaded sex on a winter night, you should have a few to pick from. If not, you probably shouldn't be getting married. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

18 " I never asked my mother where babies came from but I remember clearly the day she volunteered the information....my mother called me to set the table for dinner. She sat me down in the kitchen, and under the classic caveat of 'loving each other very, very much,' explained that when a man and a woman hug tightly, the man plants a seed in the woman. The seed grows into a baby. Then she sent me to the pantry to get placemats. As a direct result of this conversation, I wouldn't hug my father for two months. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

19 " Who do you have to sleep with to get laid in this town? "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays

20 " In my lame pescetarian defense, it's very hard to be a girl and say you won't eat something. Refuse one plate of bacon-wrapped pork rinds and you're anorexic. Accept them and you're on the Atkins. Excuse yourself to go to the bathroom and you're bulimic. Best to keep perfectly still and bring an IV of fluids with you to dinner. "

― Sloane Crosley , I Was Told There'd Be Cake: Essays