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1 " What is it like to be a Spokane Indian without wild salmon? It is like being a Christian if Jesus had never rolled back the stone and risen from his tomb. "
― Sherman Alexie , You Don't Have to Say You Love Me
2 " I often wonder why I am the one who remember all the pain? "
3 " There are family mysteries I cannot solve. There are family mysteries I am unwilling to solve. "
4 " An Indian’s wealth Is determined by what they lose And not by what they save. "
5 " Great pain is repetitive. Grief is repetitive. "
6 " You’re always making up stuff from the past,” she said. “And the stuff you imagine is always better than the stuff that actually happened. "
7 " I would guess, perhaps too optimistically, that nearly ever racist believes it is morally wrong to be racist. And since nearly every person thinks of themselves as being moral, then a racist must consciously and subconsciously employ tortured logic in order to explain away their racism--in order to believe themselves to be nonracist. "
8 " I didn’t yet know that romantic heroes—famous and not—are usually aimless nomads in disguise. "
9 " ....Dear friends, I am often a lonely man, Even in a room full of people who love me. Dear friends, my brain--Unpredictable as it was--is even more unpredictable now.But thank God for all of the ways in which we compensate.For our deficiencies. "
10 " Death is always incongruous. "
11 " There are so many new skyscrapers being built in our city of rain, I wonder if everybody's spirit animal is now the construction crane. "
12 " My name is Sherman Alexie and I was born from loss and loss and loss and loss and loss and loss and loss and loss and loss and loss and loss and loss and loss.And loss. "
13 " Listen. I don't know how or when My grieving will end, but I'm always Relearning how to be human again. "
14 " What about me?” I asked. “Am I mean?” “You aren’t mean to me with words,” she said. “You’re mean to me with your silences. "
15 " This is who I am. This is who I have always been. I am in pain. I am always in pain. But I always find my way to the story. And I always find my way home. "
16 " Is the air okay?" I texted."It hurts a little to breathe," my sister texted back. "But we're okay."Jesus, I thought, is there a better and more succinct definition of grief than It hurts a little to breathe, but we're okay? "
17 " The world is too fucking big. Sometimes, I can't even carry myself through all the love and fear. "
18 " But a person can be genocided-can have every connection to his past severed- and live to be an old man whose rib cage is a haunted house built around his heart. "
19 " So I wonder: Will a person who has drowned,Or almost drowned, always feelLike they're drowning,Even after they've been saved? "
20 " So we must forgive all those Who trespass against us? Fuck that shit. I’m not some charitable trust. There are people I will hate Even after I’m ashes and dust. "