I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life QUOTES

1 " Sometimes I fantasize about getting my hands on my library records. . . my recurring bookworm dream is to peruse my personal library history like it's a historical document.

My bookshelves show me the books I've bought or been given. . . But my library books come into my house and go out again, leaving behind only memories and a jotted line in a journal (if I'm lucky). I long for a list that captures these ephemeral reads - all the books I've borrowed in a lifetime of reading, from last week's armful spanning back to when I was a seven-year-old kid with my first library card. I don't need many details - just the titles and dates would be fine - but oh, how I'd love to see them.

Those records preserve what my memory has not. I remember the highlights of my grade-school checkouts, but much is lost to time. How I'd love to see the complete list of what I chose to read in second grade, or sixth, or tenth. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

2 " For everyone who’s ever finished a book
under the covers with a flashlight
when they were supposed to be sleeping. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

3 " With apologies to Kathleen Kelly, what I've come to learn is this: if my real life reminds me of something I read in a book , I'm reading well -- and I'm probably living well, too. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

4 " A good book, when we return to it, will always have something new to say. It's not the same book, and we're not the same reader "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

5 " People read for a multiplicity of reasons. Nearly forty years in, I can tell you why I inhale books like oxygen: I'm grateful for my one life, but I'd prefer to live a thousand --and my favorite books allow me to experience more on the page than I ever could in my actual life. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

6 " When we share our favorite titles, we can't help but share ourselves as well. Shakespeare said the eyes are the windows to the soul, but we readers know one's bookshelves reveal just as much. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

7 " I feel certain of this: I wouldn’t be the person I am today if I weren’t a reader. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

8 " You accept that it’s time to cull your personal library. You lovingly handle each book, determining if it brings you joy. It does. They all do. You are full of bookish joy, but still woefully short on shelf space. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

9 " We can’t know what a book will mean to us until we read it. And so we take a leap and choose. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

10 " Every reader goes through this rite of passage: the transition from having books chosen for us to choosing books for ourselves. When given the choice, some choose not to read. But you, dear reader, moved from being told what to read to choosing for yourself. From reading on assignment, perhaps to please someone else, to reading at your own leisure to please only yourself. When faced with the task of establishing your own reading life, you did it, or maybe you’re still in the middle of doing it. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

11 " Reading is often viewed as a solitary act; that’s one of the reasons I love it, and it’s certainly my favorite escape and introvert coping strategy of choice. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

12 " A book twin is a joy, and I highly recommend finding one, if you can. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

13 " I can tell you why I inhale books like oyxgen: I am grateful for my one life, but I'd prefer to live a thousand—and my favorite books allow me to experience more on the page than I ever could in my actual life. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

14 " With apologies to Kathleen Kelly, what I’ve come to learn is this: if my real life reminds me of something I read in a book, I’m reading well—and I’m probably living well, too. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

15 " You’re sad because whatever you read next can’t possibly be as good as the book you just finished. You despair because nothing you read can possibly be as good, ever again. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

16 " When I find myself in a dreaded reading slump, nothing boosts me out of it faster than revisiting an old favorite. Old books, like old friends, are good for the soul. But they're not just comfort reads. No, a good book is exciting to return to, because even though I've been there before, the landscape is always changing. I notice something new each time I read a great book. As Italo Calvino wrote, "A classic is a book that has never finished saying what it has to say." Great books keep surprising me with new things. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

17 " Should is a dangerous word, a warning sign that we’re crossing an important boundary and veering into book bossiness. Should is tangled up with guilt, frustration, and regret; we use it all the time, many of us to speak of the ways we wish we could be more, do more, or just be different. Or that we wish our friends could be different, and they would if they knew what was good for them.

Should is bossy. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

18 " You're looking for a book that reminds you why you read in the first place. One written well and that will feel like it was written just for you—one that will make you think about things in a new way, or feel things you didn't expect a book to make you feel, or see things in a new light. A book you won't want to put down, whose characters you don't want to tell good-bye. A book you will close feeling satisfied and grateful, thinking, Now, that was a good one. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

19 " As a devoted reader, I lovingly give countless hours to finding the right books for me. I don’t think those hours are wasted; part of the fun of reading is planning the reading. But I’ve learned that sometimes, despite my best efforts, a book unexpectedly finds me and not the other way around. And when it does, it’s okay to reshuffle my To Be Read list and go with it. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life

20 " If I could read only great books for the rest of my days, I would be happy. But finding those books—for myself or any other reader—isn't so easy. A "great" book means different things to different people.

When we talk about reading, we often focus on the books themselves, but so much of the reading life is about the reader as an active participant. To put a great book in your hands, here's what I need to know: When you turn to the written word, what are you looking for? What themes speak to you? What sorts of places do you want to vicariously visit? What types of characters do you enjoy meeting on the page? What was the last story you wished would never end? Which was the last volume you hurled across the room?

Without the details of what "great" means to you, and without knowing what kind of reader you are, the question might be simple, but it's impossible to answer. To hand you a great book, I don't just need to know about books; I need to know you. "

― Anne Bogel , I'd Rather Be Reading: The Delights and Dilemmas of the Reading Life