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1 " Be gentle and forbearing with one another and, if one has a difference(a grievance or complaint) against another, readily pardoning each other; even as the Lord has [freely] forgiven you, so must you also [forgive]. ( Colossians 3:13 ) "
― Joyce Meyer , Living Beyond Your Feelings: Controlling Emotions So They Don't Control You
2 " Take the helm and sail your own ship. Don't just get into the boat with nobody at the helm and merely hope that the waves of life take you somewhere good. "
3 " You can fight the feelings of depression by reminding yourself of blessings in your life. You can listen to music or sing. Even getting your mind off yourself by doing something kind for someone else will help immensely. Don't forget that our moods are connected to our thoughts; therefore, I urge you to take notice of what you're thinking about when you feel depressed. You may find the source of your problem. "
4 " Our feelings are unreliable and cannot be trusted to convey truth. "
5 " I learned that what happened to me did not have to define who I was. My past could not control my future unless I allowed it to. "
6 " [T]he Christian is unable to sin and not care ... They may sin, but they cannot do so comfortably and continually. They are very much aware of their wrong actions, and they are very miserable. "
7 " If you want to give the devil a nervous breakdown, just get up every day and see how much good you can do. "
8 " The sooner we learn feelings are fickle, the better off we are. "
9 " Gaining a victory is more difficult than maintaining it once you have it. "
10 " The three most harmful negative emotions are anger, guilt, and fear. And anger is number one. It is also the strongest and most dangerous of all passions. "
11 " Good relationships require a lot of hard work, education, and willingness to meet each other’s needs. "
12 " If we have to wait to see how we feel before we know if we can enjoy the day, then we are giving feelings control over us. But thankfully we have free will and can make decisions that are not based on feelings. If we are willing to make right choices regardless of how we feel, God will always be faithful to give us the strength to do so. Living the good life that God has made ready for us is based on our being obedient to His way of being and doing. He gives us the strength to do what is right, but we are the ones who must choose it… God won’t do it for us. "
13 " You will invest in something as you live your life, so make sure it is something that will pay dividends you will enjoy. "
14 " You can always tell God how you feel and ask for His help and strength, but talking about negative feelings just to be talking does no good at all. The Bible instructs us not to speak with idle (inoperative, nonworking) words (see Matt. 12:36). If negative feelings persist, asking for prayer or seeking advice is a good thing, but once again I want to stress that talking just to be talking is useless. "
15 " Hannah Whitehall Smith, the author of The Christian’s Secret of a Happy Life, said, “God disciplines the soul by inward exercises and outward providences.” What she means is that God will put into our hearts the right thing to do in every situation, but if we choose not to do it, then He will allow our circumstances to become our teacher. "
16 " I can patiently wait for the things I want in life, trusting God to bring them in His timing. "
17 " Remember that we cannot judge the moral value of any action by how we feel. Our feelings are unreliable and cannot be trusted to convey truth. "
18 " No matter what you might be going through right now, I encourage you to make a decision that God will bring you through, and you do not have to be afraid of lack in any area of your life because God is faithful. "
19 " A happy heart is good medicine and a cheerful mind works healing, but a broken spirit dries up the bones. (Proverbs 17:22) "
20 " If someone hurts you, cry a river, then build a bridge and get over it. Unknown "