QUOTE : A happy marriage depends on two people, one person may have good intentions, committed, willing and doing everything for the marriage to work. However, if the other person is not willing and committed to having a happy marriage, the weak one will set the tone of the marriage. So, is our relationship with God, he has good plans for our lives, however our level of commitment determines the tone or outcomes of our relationship with him. A relationship is a two way interactions. Play your part well and you shall reap the benefits.