" Sometimes how we learn to love ourselves is by loving others and seeking to answer the question "How may I serve?" rather than "What's in it for me?" So, don't wait 'til you've learnt how to do that before entering into your next relationship, because it is in the context of relationship that we learn how to love and how to let love in, not sitting on the sidelines trying to work it out. "

― Diane Viola , Travels with Buster: A Journey of Unconditional Love