" When one has let go of that great hidden agenda that drives humanity and its varied histories, then one can begin to encounter the immensity of one's own soul. If we are courageous enough to say, "Not this person, nor any other, can ultimately give me what I want; only I can," then we are free to celebrate a relationship for what it can give. "

― James Hollis , Eden Project: In Search of the Magical Other (Studies in Jungian Psychology By Jungian Analysts, 79)