" know when
you need to
draw your lines
in the sand.

know when
you need to
lock your windows
& your doors.

know when
you need to
put your
fences up.

(& when
you need to
lace them with
barber wire.)

truth is,
we have control
over very little
but we
have every say
in who gets
our love.

- boundaries "

― Nikita Gill , Dragonhearts