" I learned that I'd never be free from pain but I could be free from the fear of pain, and that was enough. [...]

The fire of pain won't consume me. I can burn and burn and live. I can live on fire. I am fireproof.

Second: I can use pain to become. "

― Glennon Doyle , Get Untamed: The Journal (How to Quit Pleasing and Start Living)