" The English language is shot through with idioms and expressions which allude to violence without inciting it, most of which pass without notice unless they're called to your attention. One of the most disingenuous moves in the incivility wars is to treat these expressions with a specious literalism; politics makes Freudians of us all. (205) "

― Geoffrey Nunberg , Ascent of the A-Word: Assholism, the First Sixty Years