QUOTE : What did you spend so much time talking about with Ila? If you weren’t dancing with that long-legged fellow, you were talking to her like it was some kind of secret.”<br /><br />“Ila was giving me advice on being a woman,” Egwene replied absently. He began laughing, and she gave him a hooded, dangerous look that he failed to see.<br /><br />“Advice! Nobody tells us how to be men. We just are.”<br /><br />“That,” Egwene said, “is probably why you make such a bad job of it.