" The sages advise us to study Torah lishma-"for its own sake" rather than to impress others with our scholarship. A paradox of parenting is that if we love our children for their own sake rather than for their achievements, it's more likely that they will reach their true potential. "

― Wendy Mogel , The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children