" Dr. Stern’s explanation of how to identify this kind of covert emotional control and abuse, and how to resist it, is a very important tool for young women in particular to use, if they wish to safeguard their emotional well-being, resist others’ efforts to control and manipulate them, and choose relationships that support and nurture their development. "

― Robin Stern , The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life