" We’ve decided to stop calling America “divided.” Buying into this conflict-driven narrative is a choice, and it’s a choice we’re not going to make. We don’t feel divided from each other or the people in our lives in any way. There are no perfect relationships, ideas, people, or organizations in our lives. They’re all flawed, just as we are flawed. But we see past those flaws—because we are first looking for the good. "

― Sarah Stewart Holland , I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening): A Guide to Grace-Filled Political Conversations