" No, I'm standing here as a placeholder...It means I'm holding your place, until you are ready to stand for yourself. You don't need me to save you. I can help you save yourself, and you can save yourself. I'm not going to let them kill you. I'm not going to let you kill yourself. I'm going to show you an alternative. That's my job, to get you over the times when you believe there aren't any alternatives, to help you though the time you don't have any hope. To make you know that you can be happy again, and that you will be. "
― Lisa Scottoline , Every Fifteen Minutes