" To suggest that the grief of Christ issues from his perfect wisdom and
charity would confirm that true sorrow is human and therefore cannot
correspond to despair, since the hopelessness of despair would yield nothing
about which to sorrow. If life is meaningless, there is no reason to
mourn. Truth is what makes grief authentic and real, and so it follows
that Truth Incarnate, come down from heaven to our vale of tears, would
grieve at the highest pitch. The “tragic experience of the most complete
desolation”49 depends on “the knowledge and experience of the Father.”50
Or as Adrienne von Speyr puts it: “The Father is never more present than
in this absence on the Cross. "

― Aaron Riches , Ecce Homo: On the Divine Unity of Christ