" EROS AND THANATOS        Beyond all this, the wish to be alone        However the sky grows dark with invitation-cards        However we follow the printed directions of sex        However the family is photographed under the        flagstaff—        Beyond all this, the wish to be alone        Beneath it all desire of oblivion runs        Despite the artful tensions of the calendar,        The life insurance, the tabled fertility rites,        The costly aversion of the eyes from death —        Beneath it all desire of oblivion runs. • PHILIP LARKIN "

― Chris Hedges , War Is a Force That Gives Us Meaning