" The challenge of mindfulness is to work with the very circumstances that you find yourself in—no matter how unpleasant, how discouraging, how limited, how unending and stuck they may appear to be—and to make sure that you have done everything in your power to use their energies to transform yourself before you decide to cut your losses and move on. "

― Jon Kabat-Zinn , Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness Meditation in Everyday Life