" If we accept that we have at least an iota of free will, we cannot throw it back the moment things go wrong. Like a human parent, God will help us when we ask for help, but in a way that will make us more mature, more real, not in a way that will diminish us. "

― Madeleine L'Engle , Two-Part Invention: The Story of a Marriage (The Crosswicks Journal, #4)