" That's overcompensating, and that's just as bad,” I say. “Your say you don't see color … but that's all you see. You're so hyperaware of it, and trying to look like you aren't prejudiced, you can't even understand that when you say race doesn't matter all I hear is you dismissing what I've felt, what I've lived, what it's like to be put down because of the color of my skin. "

― Jodi Picoult , Small Great Things