" Offering a lady a chair was one way of showing that this work was appreciated, and that strength and brute force—at which men generally tended to excel—was not the only thing that counted. Respect for ladies tamed men, and there were many men who were sorely in need of taming; that was well known, said Mma Ramotswe. "

― Alexander McCall Smith , The House of Unexpected Sisters (No. 1 Ladies' Detective Agency #18)