" When we fear what other people think about us, we are frequently more focused on 'being interesting' and less focused on 'taking an interest.' That's why many people talk a great deal when they are anxious and why many people never feel heard. If both people and conversation are trying to be interesting, there is no one left to genuinely listen. "

― , When Fish Fly: Lessons for Creating a Vital and Energized Workplace from the World Famous Pike Place Fish Market