" Many of us who have found ourselves to be useful in Christian service have found ourselves unable, if we're honest, to connect with God in any other way, We do for him, instead of being with him. We become soldiers, instead of brothers and sisters and daughters and sons. This is dangerous, damaging territory, and I've spent to much time there. "

― Shauna Niequist , Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living