" We eat a couple of cookies in bed and I point out that there’s been a change (not a bad thing but still…) in Rachel Maddow’s lip gloss and he admires my keen eye and we brush the cookie crumbs onto the floor because no one is watching. I plump my pillow so vigorously, it knocks everything off my nightstand, and he laughs and says that I’m a danger to myself and others. Those moments are all I want. I want a life of this. He sighs and I sigh. "

― Amy Bloom , In Love: A Memoir of Love and Loss